To get a parents perspective on SM I also read the article The Children Who Choose to Stay Silent.
In the article parents discuss what it is like to have a child with SM. One
parent describes having a normal, talkative, even outgoing, child at home but
one who transforms into an anxious and silent student within feet of her school.
Zoe, the mother of a young girl with SM, said: “How can anyone so young feel
that much fear? I’ve been told she will talk in her own time and I have to be
patient, but it’s so hard to watch, especially when you know how different your
child can be at home. It just breaks my heart for her.” I can only imagine how
sad and frustrating that must be as a parent. To know your child can be open
and social, but not know how to help him/her overcome their fear of certain
situations must be really hard. As an SLP, I will need to remember how important is is to address family's needs as well as my patients, as it is obvious that disorders/disabilities impact the entire family. The article can be found at: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2124284/The-children-choose-stay-silent-The-sad-surprisingly-common-plight-youngsters-selective-mutism.html#ixzz1r5NjoAmbhttp://
Tuesday, May 8, 2012
To learn more about Selective Mutism (SM), which is a
relatively low incidence disorder, I read a journal article called Multiple informants’ report of emotional and
behavioural problems in a nation-wide sample of selective mute children and
controls by H. Kristensen. In the study, children ages 4-16 with and
without SM were assessed using the Child Behavior Checklist, the Teacher Report
Form, and the Youth Self Report. This article found that many children with SM
have internalizing and externalizing problems, but that children with SM differ
mostly from their non SM counterparts in terms of the withdrawn scale. This
proves that SM is an expression of severe social anxiety. Children with SM can
appear withdrawn, sullen, depressed, fearful, anxious, and/or be very easily
startled. It is believed that most children with SM experienced an event that
was viewed as traumatic by them, causing a great deal of anxiety and/or
embarrassment. These “traumatic” events can be as subtle as being laughed at
when speaking or not liking the sound of one’s voice. Children with SM have
been found to: have low self esteem, lack confidence, and have difficulty
socializing in situations outside of the home. However, SM has not been linked
to other behavior issues and having SM has not been shown to lead to the
development of other behavioral problems/disorders.
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Hi Megan,
ReplyDeleteI read the article you provided in this post and it really hit home with me. My mom has a really good friend (I have known her for years as well) who has a five year old daughter with selective mutism. My mom and I have discussed this disorder before because she is also a teacher and has had two students with this disorder in her classroom. The two children she had were very sad and anxious almost all of the time and they would barely speak to her. She had always assumed that something extremely traumatic had happened to them, but she could never put her finger on it because the parents seemed to be wonderful and caring people. Her thoughts about this changed when she learned that her friends daughter was suffering from selective mutism because she knows how much this little girl is loved and appreciated at home. The little girls mother is so worried about her, the exact same way as the mother from the article you posted. My mom and I both thought that there was no way this child had experienced something traumatic because she is seriously treated like a princess. However, I now realize after reading your post that traumatic experiences aren't always related to what goes on between a parent and a child. I was completely unaware that traumatic experiences don't always have to be related to their families and can be something as simple as being laughed at for talking. This makes me sad because I was a sensitive child myself, but never to the point of not speaking, so I can't imagine how they feel. It is nice to know that there are other cases like my moms friend out there because I feel like there will be hope for this child once she grows up a little bit. As always, I have enjoyed reading your posts! You are a great blogger :)
-Megan